My newest piece titled, Butt Play: Your Ifs, Ands and … Buts  is available to read on Kinkly.com!

While anal sex can be pleasurable and life-changing for many people, there are more barriers to it that you might realize. In this article I discuss briefly the societal pressures put on women and men regarding butt play, which often result in anal exploration becoming a huge turnoff for many people.

It can be really beneficial for folks to assess their objections to anal: are they in response to negative or forceful pressures in society? If so, these can be overcome if one chooses to do so. Being aware of one’s sexuality, its limits and the reasons for these limits can be beneficial. Let’s face it, we all feel pressured from others in our world such that sometimes our actions feel more like reactions. I want you to feel empowered to take your sexuality into your own hands.

Thanks for reading! xoxo