First point: This curved, stainless steel dildo is amazing. The Pure Wand has the perfect curve that follows the contour my vagina, almost too perfectly, because at times I crave more friction and resistance with dildo shapes and textures. When it presses against my G-spot, it presses hard with its 1.5 pounds of badass stainless steel. It feels great and is really easy to use, except for the slight resistance getting into the vagina initially and the fact that once you pop you can’t stop. (Pringles reference! They should pay me.) I never want to stop using this dildo once I start, and every time I use it I am pleasantly reminded. The Pure Wand is made for G-spot stimulation, and with the large, heavy ball at the end, how could it miss?  This is my favorite toy yet.

Second point: I didn’t heed Epiphora’s warning to put towels down before trying the Pure Wand out, and I very much regretted not doing so. I seriously soaked my bedding down to the mattress. Oi. So, be warned, this toy can and will cause you to gush fluids. More fluids than you could ever anticipate imagine.

Third point: While this is a simple, solid metal dildo, it makes my vagina queef noisily more than anything else ever. Using this toy is not discreet at times because it unabashedly makes my vagina make sounds I hadn’t thought were possible at such a volume. This amuses me almost as much as fart jokes. Granted, the Pure Wand makes me queef easily because I once I start thrusting with this toy, I don’t want to stop until I become a soaked, sweaty pile of exhaustion and bliss. Queefing is inevitable. Queef.

I really like how cool the metal feels when I first insert this dildo. The Pure Wand is long enough to hold firmly and comfortably. The handle end has a smaller ball on it (which is also insertable) and this helps you grasp it. It never slips out of my hand as my juices never reach that far down the Wand. The heaviness of this toy is ideal for exercising my PC muscles too.

Product details:

• Material: medical grade stainless steel
• Length: 11 inches
• Width: 1.5 inches
• Weight: 1.5+ pounds
• Cleaning: boilable, dishwasher-safe, soap & water, toy cleaner
• Nonporous and nontoxic
• Latex-free, phthalates-free, hypoallergenic

You haven’t known G-spot pleasure until you’ve tried this toy. Seriously.

Queef. What a hideous word for such a beautifully hilarious sound.

Thanks to a wonderful reader for sending this toy my way! You folks spoil me rotten! xoxo

 I know, I can’t get enough of that darned Njoy Pure Wand. Here it is, hanging out. Chillin’ like a villain. An incredible, awesome villain.

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This toy can be used during solo masturbation, or one person can use it on another. I liked using it with other toys simultaneously. This toy is not ideal for anal play because of its shape.

The material is silicone and the surface has a semi-matte finish. I would not say the dildo’s texture creates any drag. It has a smooth feel to it, and is solid, non-porous, and unyielding. The texture feels nice except when it gets wet, as it is difficult to grasp firmly for rougher penetration.

The Ella, with its 7 inches in length (5 inches insertable) and 1.25 inches in width, did not live up to my expectations. While this dildo was a bit on the small side for me, that does not mean that it might not be ideal for you. I tend to get very, naturally lubricated when I am aroused, and so with the Ella being a bit smaller and smoother than expected, it did not succeed in such an environment. I wanted to use the toy to stimulate my G-spot specifically, by inserting the curved tip vaginally first, but the wetness caused the smooth shaft-of-a-handle to become far too slippery. While I had less issues being able to firmly grasp the head and insert it vaginally in the opposite direction, this did not maximize any G-spot stimulation, which was the main reason I bought this dildo.

While the toy has a pretty ideal shape, I would love it if was overall bigger: in length and girth. The size limits my ability to maximize the Ella’s design and performance. I did have awesome success combining the Ella with the We-Vibe II because the We-Vibe limited the accessible space in which the Ella could be inserted. Since I felt fuller, I could use the Ella by holding the head, and it still felt great even though I was using the Ella in the direction that was least satisfactory.  For the same reasons, the Ella works great in double penetration play as well–with a butt plug inserted anally, for example.

This dildo can be cleaned with soap and warm water or a 10% bleach solution, and it is boilable and dishwasher safe. Since it is made of silicone, it can be used with lubricants that are not silicone-based. The Ella comes with a gift/storage box, a display shelf and a satin bag. These aid in easy, varied, safe storage for this dildo. Do not store the Ella so that it touches other products, because materials from different products can interact negatively, causing each other to become distorted.

Pros:
Body-safe material, easy and safe storage, name brand, aesthetically pleasing

Cons:
Limited usage by itself for G-spot stimulation

Rating: 4/5 Stars

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This dildo is made from silicone, feels smooth and is firm but bendy. It has enough flexibility to be used to pleasure two people at once. I like that it looks like two long, extended fingers that want to hit a woman’s G-spot, while the extended thumb pleasures the other lady’s G-spot. The curved mound (refer to photo) provides clitoral stimulation to the lady using the bulb/thumb end. (But then again, if you use it solo, the bulb end itself can provide clitoral stimulation, if it isn’t being used as a handle.)  This double dildo is a sexy and intimate toy to use with your partner in many ways.

What makes this double dildo exciting is that it is used without a harness and can be hands-free, or hands-on. This product is great for various play and positions. For example it can be used for double vaginal stimulation or solo masturbation. Your partner can use the toy on you. It is also safe for anal play (but be clean and safe if you use it for both). Wet for Her is busting down the standards of sex toys by creating new, creative products. Not every toy has to have a phallus shape.

The Double Digits dildo works well as a handheld dildo for solo play. The short end becomes a handle so it is easy to rock back and forth for G-spot stimulation. I really enjoyed the feel of this toy. If a dildo is going to be slim-to-medium in width, I prefer it to be firm, which this toy is. It is 1 1/3″ wide, so I like that it has a solid-but-bendy feel to it. The bulb end feels nice too. It is short and a slim 1.25″, but I often enjoy the sensations felt from a smaller, firm toy as I wiggle it around. I would love to see Wet for Her make another double dildo like this one, but thicker.

The shape of this double dildo is really quite nice and unique from other silicone dildos I own. Speaking of the shape: I couldn’t resist holding it like this for a photo:

(I was tempted to say to my boyfriend, “Stick ‘em up!”, but the opportunity hasn’t arisen. Yet.)
As is expected with a quality product, it is phthalates free and 100% silicone.It is boil-able without the bullet. There is a hole at the corner of this toy (where my thumb is) to insert a vibrating bullet. The bullet has three different vibration levels. The vibrations are not particularly loud, nor quiet, but do create a nice buzz throughout the toy. It’s nice having a bullet with different settings, I must say.

Bulb Dimensions: 2.5″ x 1.25″
Finger Dimensions: 5″ x 1.33″

This is what the packaging looks like, but the lubricant is not included when you buy this from Good Vibrations. The product is called “Four” by Wet for Her, but is called the Double Digits Silicone Double Dildo through Good Vibrations Sex Toys. I really like this toy, especially because of its versatility. Thanks Good Vibes for allowing me to review this in return for my opinion!

Other double dildos offered by Good Vibrations can be found here.  xoxo

This toy is also harness compatible.  It meets Good Vibrations eco-friendly values for sustainable and environmentally conscious sex products..  The Captain is phthalates-free, waterproof, and safe to use anally.

The Captain Dildo is 100% silicone, which means it can be cleaned with soapy water, in the dishwasher, or boiled for 5 minutes! Totally hygienic! Win!