Hello folks! I wanted to let you know that I’ll be writing pieces for Kinkly.com that I will advertise on here. I want you to stay informed as to my writings on sex and sex-related topics. I think my work with Kinkly will help me explore topics that I have been wanting to write about, but I have been letting them brew, as it were.
My first piece debuted on July 3 and it is entitled: Reclaiming Vanilla Sex: Why it’s Hot.
My article discusses how the term “vanilla” has become a negative term that depicts boredom, normalcy, plainness. While vanilla things can certainly be plain, what they are definitely not are inferior to non-vanilla things. Vanilla sex can be hot, sensual, primal, rough, new, romantic, what have you. The lack of kink does not necessarily make it boring and I think this needs to be stated.
Enjoy the article! Stay tuned for future articles of mine. xoxo
I’ve seen “vanilla” used as a negative term in some communities, but I honestly don’t see it that way…vanilla is a flavor, people like different flavors! I’m all weird because I started out kinky and now find myself venturing into vanilla. Go figure.
All the best to you in your writing adventures!
Great article! I totally agree with you; I’m glad to embrace both vanilla and kink in my life – they’re both hot! It’s the feeling you get that matters, not how tied many toys or whips or cuffs you use.