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Collared

admin — Tue, 30 Oct 2012 05:12:00 +0000

Maybe this is part of my Halloween costume… or perhaps I’m just ready for some tricks and treats.

See who else is participating this week with Toy With Me Tuesday! xoxo

Day 21 [30 Days of Kink]

admin — Fri, 03 Feb 2012 21:06:00 +0000

Favorite BDSM related book (fiction or non-fiction)

The Butcher, The Baker, The Candlestick Maker: An Erotic Memoir
By Suzanne Portnoy

This is a lovely, wonderful erotic tale about real-life experiences of a kinky lady. I highly recommend it. This was my first formal exposure to kink. xoxo

Day 8 [30 Days of Kink]

admin — Fri, 03 Feb 2012 20:27:00 +0000

Post a kinky image you find erotic.

Day 4 [30 Days of Kink]

admin — Sat, 10 Dec 2011 22:51:00 +0000

Any early experiences that, in retrospect, hint at your kinks?

I want to just say “No,” but that would be boring wouldn’t it? I will say that even from early on I have always been curious about sexual exploration. I first read about masturbation in a magazine, which is when I began searching around for different ways to pleasure myself. It has not stopped there, obviously. I have always been insatiably curious about my own sexual experiences and how to give and receive pleasure with a partner. I have learned over time as to what I like in the bedroom (and out) and I think that my genuine curiosity and interest in sex has fueled my sexploration. (har har)

This is also the driving force behind my kinks. Without researching I would not have learned what my kinks were as soon as I did. I have only been sexually active for less than three years and look how much I have learned in that time. (hollerrrrr)

Looking back, I notice how fairly obvious it is that I’m a sexual gal. Like I have said in the past, my kinks are fairly mild compared to others, but then again, who doesn’t have a kink or two? Everyone has a quirky fetish whether they know it or not. I’m just happy that I know about mine and have opportunities to explore more in the future.

Done! xoxo

Day 3 [30 Days of Kink]

admin — Sat, 19 Nov 2011 11:21:00 +0000

How did you discover you were kinky?

This is not the most interesting question for me to answer. I suppose I discovered I was kinky through learning about–and practicing–sexual things.

Positive environments are great places in which to experiment. Someone tweaks a nipple, I discover I like it. He pinches it a bit more. I squeal with delight. So it goes.

I think my kinks are fairly vanilla, but then sometimes I meet people who think I’m a Kink Queen. Silly folks. Anyways, I discovered my kinks through my relationships and my personal exploration through sex toys and ideas.

Short and sweet. xoxo

Day 2 [30 Days of Kink]

admin — Thu, 13 Oct 2011 15:34:00 +0000

List your kinks.

Well. Here are some things:

Spanking

Light bondage/restraints

Exhibitionism
Nipple play/pain
CollarsI am still quite new with trying out kinky stuff. I got spanked only a few weeks ago-spanked hard enough to leave hand prints- and I loved it. Although it fucking hurt.

I love nipple play and pain. My breasts are large, which makes me think that my nipples might be less sensitive than other boobs out there, but I quite like nipple play. Biting, sucking, licking, clamping, etc.

I have yet to try restraints for sex. I’m sure I will find it to be a terrible, exciting tease. Here are some products I’m wanting to use:

As far as exhibitionism is concerned…. I’ve fooled around in a car and I’ve been fingered in a theatre. I’ve also been fingered at a club. I would like to push these limits in the future. It’s not that I like having sex in front of people, but that I like to do naughty things in public in order to see just how much I can get away with. It’s a secret thrill, but I don’t want to get caught, generally speaking.

I find collars to be sexy in some ways. I only own one made for the bedroom, but I own a necklace collar as well. It’s just such a turn on to know that I’m wear a necklace in public that reflects my sexual, subby side.

That’s all I can think of for now! Perhaps I’ll add more to the list later. xoxo

Day 1 [30 Days of Kink]

admin — Tue, 11 Oct 2011 17:49:00 +0000

Dom, sub, switch? What parts of BDSM interest you? Give us an interesting in-depth definition of what that means to you. Basically define your kinky self for us.

It has always surprised me that even though I don’t consider myself very kinky, others see me as much kinkier than they are. Guess it’s all about perspective. I do consider myself very open-minded and appreciative/accepting of a wide range of healthy, happy sexual lifestyles and practices. I suppose I am not with the majority in that, which makes me sad. People are in bliss in their own ignorance though.

And admittedly, I do like some kink in the bedroom.

Dominant: I do not consider myself to be dominant. If I am comfortable with myself and my company, sometimes I take control of the situation in order to get what I want. This is seen mostly through my initiations of kissing, foreplay, and the like. I do not usually control the situation the entire time. Outside the bedroom I am not generally dominant either although I need to work on that. I think that if I was a little more dominant I would benefit greatly. I sometimes let people walk all over me, which is not okay.

Submissive: I identify mostly with this kink label. Through my experience I have learned that subs have power. They let themselves be directed; they give permission to a trusted person or persons in order for both groups to gain from this power imbalance. I highly respect subs. Another main reason I identify with sub is because I like doing things to show my affection. I like obeying orders (sometimes) because this can arouse me.

Here is my big disclaimer: being a sub doesn’t mean that I like to obey orders coming from anyone who thinks he/she is dominant. If a stranger orders me to suck his cock, I’ll PUNCH HIM IN THE FACE. Or my boyfriend will. Being a sub is a very special, selective identity that isn’t shared with everyone. I’m no one’s slut. I’m no one’s whore (unless I choose to be). I demand respect. I am a sexy woman. I don’t deserve any degrading labels because you think it’s hot. Nope. Why don’t you first find out what I like to be called? *rant over*

I am fairly defiant and feisty. I aim to please, but on my own accord. For the main part, my man and I are equals in the bedroom. But we will probably incorporate some more kink as our bedroom plays progress, I think.

So, at the end of the day, I am a fairly-submissive gal who likes some light kink. xoxo

Kinklab Blindfold ~Babeland Review~

admin — Thu, 01 Sep 2011 15:53:00 +0000

This Kinklab Blindfold is an affordable, practical item for anyone’s kink collection.

This is practical mainly because of the elastic band that fits around my head while wearing it. This band is very comfortable, not too tight, not too loose. I think with different head sizes this might become an issue. It states on Babeland‘s description page that this blindfold fits heads with circumferences from 13″-22″.

The blindfold is made of polyurethane fabric and elastic. The material is rather comfortable and I wouldn’t mind wearing it for any length of time. My vision is blocked almost completely except that I can see a sliver right beneath my nose. No adjustment of the mask fixes this. (I don’t mind peeking a bit anyhow.)

This blindfold is really quite affordable. It seems to be made well and is quite sturdy. So far I’m quite impressed by Kinklab products. If you are concerned with affordability and comfort, this is a great blindfold for you. Other blindfolds offered by Babeland are also similarly affordable. These can be viewed here. Thanks Babeland for allowing me to review this! xoxo

Kinklab Neoprene Cuffs ~Babeland Review~

admin — Thu, 01 Sep 2011 15:26:00 +0000

Kinklab Neoprene Cuffs provided by Babeland are a great bang for your buck (no pun intended!)! These affordable cuffs created by Kinklab are ideal for kinksters who want a sturdy pair of cuffs without spending a fortune.

These cuffs are extremely sturdy and built to last. They are made of neoprene, nickle-free metal, and velcro. They come in pink/black or black! They fit up to a 10″ circumference and are 1 3/5″ wide in the band. They can be used as ankle cuffs too! Bonus!

The reason I love these cuffs is because they are vegan and remind me of the Super Cuffs I own. (Both are made with neoprene and vegan.) The only difference is that the Super Cuffs are heavier-duty: wider, thicker, stronger. However, that comes with the price difference as well. These Kinklab cuffs are extremely well-made for their affordable price. I expect these cuffs to last for quite a long time.

Other quality cuffs sold by Babeland can be viewed here.

Heart 2 Heart: Bedroom Kinkster Babeland Giveaway

admin — Tue, 26 Jul 2011 03:39:00 +0000

Thank you SO much to everyone who entered this contest! It means so much to me. xoxo
(I calculated how many “entries” each person had, assigned them a range of numbers and then used random.org to choose the winning number!)

The winner for the contest is…… Sharazade! Congratulations!! Enjoy the collar!
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Hey Kinksters! Babeland has graciously offered to host my second giveaway!!! Let’s get our kink on, folks! (Anyone can enter!)

The winner of this contest gets to CHOOSE which Heart 2 Heart product she/he would rather have most. The first option is the Heart 2 Heart Collar, pictured here:

It’s specs are 1″ wide and fit a neck with the circumference of 11.5″-16″. It is made of leather and stainless steel. This lovely collar is a fantastic product, especially for kinksters out there who wish to be collared inside or outside the bedroom! Show off this sexy collar! (I want one, but enough about me!)

The second option is this set of Heart 2 Heart Cuffs! This is perfect for audience members who might like to be lightly (or not so lightly ^.^) restrained. This is also perfect for folks who need a sturdy, quality pair of cuffs for bondage play! Heck, this pair is perfect for anyone who wants to add a bit of kink into her/his sexual play.

Here are the specs for the cuffs: I’ve arranged for them to come with a Cuff Connector. These cuffs are made of leather. They are 2″ wide and fit wrists with a 6″-9″ circumference. Plus they are super sexy! Look at those bad boys!

Thanks SO much Babeland for hosting this giveaway! xoxo

Mandatory Entry:
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The mandatory initial comment is just that- mandatory! If you do not leave a mandatory comment you will be disqualified. This contest is for readers in the United States, Canada, the United Kingdom and Australia!

*All comments will be checked for validity. Contest runs from July 26th 12:01 AM through August 5th 11:59 PM Eastern Standard Time. Winner will be chosen randomly. For other concerns please email me at geekynymph@gmail.com

Good Luck!!!! xoxo