This picture (isn’t mine, for one) reminds me of 500 Days of Summer. That movie pissed me off. I liked how realistic, cute and quirky the movie was, but the movie also upset me because of how much I related to it. I was afraid of labeling a past relationship because I knew that I’d just end it soon anyways. I’d like to think that I play for keeps, by which I mean that when I get into an official relationship, it is with the intent of having that relationship Go somewhere. This could be “into the next year,” “into marriage,” etc. The relationship is one that I think could be for keeps. I just can’t be a heartbreaker in that respect. However, I am totally fine with causal relationships that aren’t for keeps.(When I have causal relationships, the guys tend to either get pretty attached, or want more than one sexy time with me. However, I refuse to have sex with someone AGAIN if he was BAD. I mean, really!)
The problem with my causal relationships, or at least One of them, is that I really liked the fellow, and he doesn’t want it to be official. Of course, this is the same thing I DID to a guy in the past, but it still sucked. I was quite upset, because I didn’t think the label was a big deal, but that it was something just nice to have. So, either way, relationships pretty much suck. But only when one person likes the other person a WHOLE lot more. I think once I find a guy and we like each other fairly equally, then this sort of issue shouldn’t (ideally) come up. So, I just have to remain hopeful and believe that this will happen someday. I would like some Quality causal encounters while I wait (seemingly forever), however. *wink* xoxo
