I think a list is best (complete with a few pictures) to state what some toys and equipment are that I’d enjoy or be okay with using with a Master. These are items used in the bedroom, for sex. Sex can also include punishments and rewards, which can be played out through the Master’s choice of toy and equipment usage. There is something erotic about being “helpless” to the Master, meaning that the Master is privileged to act sexually upon the Slave in manners that they agree with, but these actions are still controlled by the Master.
- Nipple piercings/ clamps
- Collars
- Ball gag
- Standard eye masks.
- Handcuffs & ankle restraints
- Whips & Paddles
- Bondage rope
- Ticklers
- Chastity belts- for short periods of time
Interestingly enough, when I looked at The BDSM Store’s webpage, I checked out which it
ems came up under the best sellers list. Low and behold, the items that I think I would be okay with using, are the same items that other people purchase the most. Yay for people enjoying mild bondage. Some of those common items were blindfolds, cuffs, paddles, etc. These are pretty basic bondage gear items. These items are the ones that I think most couples would be okay with, because every relationship needs spiced up every once in awhile.
So, to me this means that most people get a bit of kinky enjoyment from mainly quite mild BDSM practices. However, there are a select few who enjoy going all out with their fantasies and fetishes. Bless them, but I cannot relate with their extreme preferences, such as hoods or leashes or more exaggerated versions of the preferences that I have.
I say, to each his or her own, provided that the couple lays out ground rules and agrees with all of the actions that occur.
Remember, BDSM is meant to bring pleasure and enrichment to your relationship. If it doesn’t strengthen the couple, then there are either stipulations that need to be sorted out, or this form of kink is just not appropriate for them. xoxo